Big romantic gestures get a lot of attention (not to mention views on YouTube), but when it comes down to the everyday business of having a real relationship, it’s the little things that really count — and that is every bit as true for guys as it is for girls. But that doesn’t mean they’re the same little things! A 2012 survey found that while men don’t notice the smaller stuff like when you dye your hair or your favorite perfume, they do pay attention to plenty of things you do. Need ideas on how to get started? These men shared their favorite ways the woman in their life makes them feel special.